Thursday, July 12, 2012

1 Week Menu Plan and Shopping List of 15 Minute Meals for under $120.00 Cheap and Quick! Week Ending 7-21-2012



Each week, I take an hour and create a menu for the upcoming week. I plan lunches and dinner, and list lunch snack options and breakfast foods that will be available. Breakfast is serve yourself. On shopping day, while I put away groceries, I mix up the instant pancake mix with water and heat a griddle. It normally takes me about 30 minutes to get all the groceries put away and organized. While I do that, I make the pancakes. Once I'm done with the groceries, I wrap the pancakes with wax paper into stacks of three. I then put the stacks into freezer bags and label them. When I come down for breakfast, I heat the pancakes (still in wax paper) for 70 seconds. Perfect!


The second part of putting away the groceries is creating the snack bags for lunches. It takes me 5 minutes in the morning to put together both of our lunch boxes and to fill our water bottles. If it takes any more than that, than it won't get done. I take snack bags and sandwich bags and separate large boxes of snacks into small baggies. I have a box in the fridge to corral the fridge snack baggies, and a box on the sideboard to corral the pantry snack bags.

I make Jon's sandwiches and wrap up my leftovers the night before, while Jon is doing the dishes after dinner. In the morning, I toss in the ice bags, entrees, and three snacks. Done!


I use Wegmans Online to create my Wegmans shopping list. Once you create an account, you can create and save shopping lists. This is essential to staying within the budget for me, because I can choose the best prices quickly and if I run over my budget, I can figure out how to adjust my menu to meet my budget. Wegmans Online shopping list also separates your list into the aisles of your store and tallies your total for you.


I always include a reminder section in my menus so that I can mesh my menu with my schedule. This gives me a heads up when I have guests, when we have plans that will take us away from home, or when there's a staple pantry item that unexpectedly ran out.

If you're interested in following this same program, just print out this post. You'll have your menu and shopping list ready to go!


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BREAKFAST OPTIONS:


1.       Milk and Cereal

2.       Freezer Pancakes, strawberry jam, butter, and maple syrup. (Take heart healthy instant pancake mix, add water as directed, pour onto hot greased griddle and flip when bubbles pop. Wrap in wax paper and aluminum foil in groups if three. Place pancake foil packets in freezer bags. When reheating, remove foil and microwave for 70 seconds still wrapped in foil. Add butter, jam, and syrup.)

3.       Frozen Jimmy Dean D’Lights (turkey sausage)

4.       Leftover Breakfast Burritos in Freezer (recipe is #4 found here)

5.       Toast and Jam.

6.       Bagel (from freezer) with butter and jam. (When I see bagels for a very good price, I always grab them. I separate the halves, wrap the halves separately in wax paper, then wrap in aluminum foil and place in freezer bags marked with the date. When I'm ready to eat one, I just unwrap and toast at a high setting.)

7.       Scrambled Eggs and Toast. (I'm a basic girl. I just spray a bit of oil in the pan, break 2 eggs directly into the pan and slosh around with a spatula. My husband would insist on things like spices, a splash of milk, and separately beaten eggs.)

8.       Ham and Cheddar Omelet: (Again... I don't have the patience to get fancy for myself. I just follow the scrambled eggs instructions above, and add sliced up deli ham and whatever cheese I have in the house. Technically, not an "omelet", but my tummy can't tell the difference.)




REMINDERS:

Wax Paper onto shopping list.

Amy will be here for dinner on Saturday.

Need a late night snack for Saturday night. Alex will be here.



LUNCH SNACK CHOICES:


1.       Beef Jerky/ Sausage sticks

2.       Trail Mix

3.       Baby Carrots with ranch dressing

4.       Cookies

5.       Potato Chips

6.       Brownies

7.       Peanut Butter and Jelly Crackers (we make our own, thin slice of peanut butter on each butter cracker, a but of jelly and press together. Bonus points if you stick a wet nap in this lunch since I always end up with sticky fingers).

8.       Granola Bars









MENU FOR WEEK ENDING 7-21-2012




**shopping day will be Friday evening instead of Sunday morning due to weekend plans**
FRIDAY:
            DINNER: Wegmans Pepperoni Pizza, Broccoli with lemon and pepper. (We buy a large pepperoni pizza from Wegmans for $11.99 on days like this when I'll be at work and then the grocery store until late. The slices are enormous and I can freeze leftovers (in wax paper and aluminum foil, then placed in freezer bags) for lunches.  We buy frozen broccoli and I just microwave in a small bowl with a tablespoon of water.)
                                 Women’s Day home-made ice cream. - I'm blogging this on Thursday (7-19-2012), so I'll include the link as soon as it's up.

SATURDAY:
            LUNCH: Cheese Ravioli Florentine, marinara sauce, mozzarella cheese sticks (or cubes). (I buy pre-cooked cheese ravioli in the freezer section. Wegmans has several types including mushroom, Florentine, beef, or cheese. They only need to boil for 5 minutes. So I add hot tap water to a pot with a lid, boil the water (takes 5-7 minutes), Boil the ravioli (5 minutes), drain and mix in marinara sauce while still hot.)
            DINNER: (w/Amy): Taco Salad, mixed romaine, seasoned ground beef, shredded iceberg, corn, cheddar cheese, chopped beefsteak tomato, ranch dressing, southwest salad topping. Tortilla chips and salsa on side. (I like to put this out in individual bowls and let people make their own salads so that I can use the leftovers later, but I;m not in charge of the dishes. I strongly recommend checking with your chief dish washer prior to attempting 8 serving bowls for your dinner. Brown the ground beef, sprinkle in a little taco seasoning, drain and place in bowl. Drain a can of corn and place in bowl. Rinse and spin a bag of shredded lettuce, place a handful of cheddar cheese in a bowl, Dice up a beefsteak tomato and put in a bowl, Put sour cream out on the table, ranch dressing, and southwest salad topping. If I have taco sauce and salsa in the fridge, I'll place that out too. Everyone can make their own salad.)
** Serve separately and save leftovers for late night snack for Jon and Alex.

SUNDAY:
            LUNCH: Chicken Salad Sandwiches, Apple Spirals with cinnamon and brown sugar. (Microwave two Tyson's frozen grilled chicken breast. Dice up small. Place in the freezer while you prep the rest.  Chop up 2 celery stalks. Take a small amount of frozen onion slices (which I prepare and freeze every other week), and chop up. You can leave them frozen since it will just help cool the chicken. After the chicken has been in freezer for about 5 minutes, combine with celery, onion and add a few big spoonfuls of mayonnaise. Mix and add more mayonnaise until satisfied with consistency. Add a generous amount of black pepper and salt and serve on bread or crackers, or low carb it and stick it in a bowl.)
            DINNER: Mexican Chicken Skillet (Warm a can of shredded chicken, half can of corn, can of rotel, microwaveable Mexican rice, and sour cream in a pan. Scoop into a tortilla wrap, add cheddar cheese and salsa) – Thanks Ashley Smith for the idea!

MONDAY:
            LUNCH: Jon: Turkey, Muenster cheese, Dill pickle and black pepper sandwiches.
                          Rowy: Frozen Wegmans Pizza
            DINNER: BLT Sandwiches, carrots and ranch dip. (Microwave 5 slices of precooked bacon at a time wrapped in paper towel for 32 seconds- I like mine very crispy, slice up a beef steak tomato. Toast bread slices. Add bacon, tomato and lettuce to bread with mayonnaise, salt and pepper.)



TUESDAY:
            LUNCH: Jon: Turkey, Muenster cheese, dill pickle, and black pepper sandwiches.
                          Rowy: Leftover BLT Sandwiches
            DINNER: Italian Chicken and Pasta Salad with green pepper, onion, olives and chopped beefsteak tomato. (Recipe #1 found here.)

WEDNESDAY:
            LUNCH: Jon: Leftover Chicken and Pasta salad.
                          Rowy: Leftover Chicken and Pasta salad.
            DINNER: Cheeseburgers on the grill, Grilled Sliced Potatoes, Green Beans. (Sadly, I have no idea how to work the grill. But if you need help. Let me know and I'll get Jon to guest blog. I do know that our made ahead patties go out (see instruction for making your own patties for 65 cents per burger), and about 10-15 minutes later hamburgers come in. We buy the club pack of hamburger buns for $1.99 (at Wegmans), then wrap them in aluminum foil (no wax paper on this one!) individually. You can place the foil wrapped buns on the part of the grill with indirect heat and they will be perfect when your burgers are done. I should also mention that we are the world's worst defrosters, so we almost always cook our burgers from frozen. For the potatoes, just take a potato, slice it thin, season it with whatever floats your boat from seasoned salt to steak seasoning. Lay the slices on the grill and flip with burgers. Microwave the frozen green beans with a table spoon of water according to package directions.


THURSDAY:
            LUNCH: Jon: Turkey, Muenster cheese, dill pickle, and black pepper sandwiches.
                          Rowy: Peanut Butter and Strawberry Jam Sandwich.
            DINNER: Chicken breast with barbecue sauce, broccoli cheese soup, and dinner rolls. (Preheat oven to 400 degrees and place frozen dinner rolls directly on rack (don;t wait for oven to preheat, just stick rolls right in. Spray a little oil in a pan on medium heat. Add Tyson's frozen grilled chicken breast and flip until heated through. On the stove top, pour 2 cans of condensed cheddar cheese soup into pot on high. Add 3 cups of milk, 3 cups of frozen broccoli pieces, and 1 cup of frozen potatoes O'Brien (or diced potatoes). Boil for 5 minutes and serve! Take the dinner rolls out when your other food is ready.)
                                                **Make an extra chicken breast and dinner roll for work tomorrow**

FRIDAY:
            LUNCH: Jon: Turkey, Muenster cheese, dill pickle, and black pepper sandwiches.
                          Rowy: Leftover grilled chicken breast with barbecue sauce, broccoli cheese soup, and dinner roll.          
            DINNER: Chicken Parmesan using frozen grilled chicken breast sandwiches, spaghetti and meat sauce. (Microwave Tyson's frozen grilled chicken breast as package indicates.  Boil hot tap water in a pot with a lid. Add spaghetti and  boil for 8 minutes. place a spoonful of spaghetti sauce and a bit of mozzarella cheese on each chicken breast and microwave for 30 seconds. When Pasta is done, pour rest of spaghetti sauce on top and mix in.)

SATURDAY:
            LUNCH: Canned Ravioli, mozzarella cheese sticks, carrot coins. (The carrot coins are frozen, we just add a tablespoon of water and microwave in a covered container as package indicates).
            DINNER: Sausage and pepper patty sandwiches, Tator Tots, Green Beans and onion. (Jon makes sausage and pepper patties the same way he makes the burger patties, we buy a pound of jimmy dean sausage, knead in the frozen pepper and onion slices that we keep and form with the hamburger press. Then stick them on the grill the same way that you would a burger. Grill the frozen hamburger buns in aluminum foil too.  Take frozen green beans and put them in a pan with a bit of oil on high heat. Sprinkle in dried minced onions and coo until heated.)

WEGMANS SHOPPING LIST




Beefsteak Tomatoes  x2
$1.99 / lb.
Wegmans Bread, Homestyle
$0.79 - 16 oz.
Wegmans 80% Lean Ground Beef
$3.69 / lb.
Wegmans Bacon, Fully Cooked
$3.39 - 2.1 oz.
Wegmans Large Cheese Pizza, Hot
$9.99
Wegmans All Natural Cheese, Muenster, Thin Sliced
$2.49 - 8 oz.
Wegmans Food You Feel Good About Fat Free Milk
$2.47
Wegmans Food You Feel Good About Sour Cream
$1.39 - 16 oz
Wegmans Heavy Cream
$1.59 - 8 fl. oz..
Wegmans Reduced Fat Mozzarella Cheese Sticks, 12 sticks
$3.79 - 12 oz.
Wegmans Sharp Cheddar Cheese, Shredded
$3.49 - 16 oz.
Wegmans Sharp Cheddar Cheese, Shredded
$1.79 - 8 oz.
Wegmans Tortillas, Burrito, Gordita Style, Flour
$1.99 - 20 oz.
Wegmans Turkey Breast, Oven Roasted, Thin Shaved, Club Pack
$8.99 - 30 oz.
Ore-Ida Potatoes O'Brien, with Onions and Peppers
$2.99 - 28 oz.
Wegmans Food You Feel Good About Chicken Breast Fillets, Grilled
$9.99 - 30 oz.
Wegmans Pasta, Cheese Ravioli
$2.99 - 25 oz.
Wegmans Food You Feel Good About Whole Kernel Corn
$0.49 - 15.25 oz.
Ro-Tel Diced Tomatoes & Green Chiles, Original
$1.29 - 10 oz.
Wegmans Food You Feel Good About Pasta Sauce, Smooth Marinara
$0.99 * - 24 oz.
Wegmans Food You Feel Good About Pasta Sauce, Tomato Basil
$0.99 * - 24 oz
Wegmans Pasta, Rainbow Rotini
$1.19 - 12 oz..
Wegmans BBQ Sauce, Brown Sugar
$1.99 - 20 oz.
Wegmans Creamy Ranch Dressing
$1.69 - 16 fl. oz.
Ortega Seasoning Mix, Taco
$0.79 - 1.25 oz.
Wegmans Food You Feel Good About Milk, Condensed, Sweet & Creamy, Sweetened
$1.59 - 14 oz.
Krusteaz Pancake Mix, Complete, Buttermilk
$2.49 - 32 oz.
Uncle Ben's Ready Rice Pouch, Spanish Style
$1.49
Valley Fresh Chicken, White, in Water
$2.99 - 10 oz.
Quaker Chewy Granola Bars, Variety Pack
$2.39 - 6.7 oz.
Wegmans Cereal, Cinnamon Squares
$1.99 - 12.8 oz.
Gianelli Sausage, Pepper & Onion
1 lb.
Notes: Available in Select Stores $2.99
Ice Cream Sandwiches (12 pack) - $1.99
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Estimated Total
$102.62

 

Aldi’s:



Wax paper – $1.00
Summer Sausage Sticks - $2.29
Salsa- $1.29
Trail Mix - $2.99
Iceberg lettuce - $.89
Celery - $1.00
Baby Carrots- $.69
Salad Mix - $.99
Tortilla Chips- $1.19
Condensed cheese soup x2- $1.50
Potato Chips - $1.29
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$15.12


Items already on hand at house:
Frozen broccoli (.99)
Lemon pepper Seasoning
Vanilla
Southwest Salad Topping (1.99)
Apples
Brown Sugar
Cinnamon
Strawberry Jam
Butter
Pancake Syrup
Jimmy Dean Delights Sausage Egg and Cheese Croissant
Bagels
Eggs
Brownies
Cookies
Peanut Butter
Ritz Crackers

 TOTAL SPENT ON GROCERIES THIS WEEK: $117.74








Tuesday, July 10, 2012

DIY Wedding on a 3,000.00 Budget- Stress Free and the Best Time of My Life!

When Jon and I got engaged in October of 2010, we had a few options. We could make it a long engagement in order to save up the money, or we could do what we wanted to do and elope for almost nothing. The important part to us was being married, we weren't a fan of waiting and stressing out over the cost. I had been a bridesmaid several times, and had seen first hand the extreme amount of stress that traditional weddings create on the bride, the couple, their friends, and family. I hadn't really had any "dream wedding" plans. I was way more concerned with the dream husband. I figured, if you found the right guy, the wedding was just a formality. We looked at our finances and figured we could spend about 3,000.00 on a wedding in January of 2011. That's right folks, 3 months!


The location was easy to pick, Jon and I first began dating when he came with me on a trip to Atlantic City. We were just friends at the time, and my parents and sister fell in love with him (so did I, he's hard not to love). He became part of the family before we even had our first date. My family lives in New York, we live in Northern Virginia, and his family is scattered around the country. We figured a destination wedding was the way to go.

LOCATION:
My family had been going to the Tropicana Casino in Atlantic City for years since it was a great halfway point for us to meet for a night or two. The Casino has something for everyone. Beside the slot machines and table games (I'm not really much of a gambler), they have retail stores (everything from White House Black Market to The Farmers Almanac Store), amazing restaurants (Carmine's, P.F. Changs, The Palm etc.), and as a bonus they're located right on the boardwalk and beachfront. When you go to the casino and sign up for a free players card, they track your "game time" and send you offers in the mail to go back. Normally the offers are for one or two nights free during their slow season. Since each member of my family (and now Jon), have their own player's card, we were getting 5 separate room offers. You should also know that these offers aren't for high rollers, If I spend $50.00 in the penny slot machines while I'm there, I would be shocked. And my mother (whom I have inherited my frugalness from) spends $20.00 per day. When you check in for your free room, you have to pay about $8.95 for taxes and fees. Since we only need two rooms for all of us, we can invite friends and check them into our extra rooms for free. I would caution however to make sure that you trust your friend, since you are ultimately responsible for the room.

 The Quarter... Photo Courtesy of Tropicana.net

 The Balcony where we got married.
We called the Casino and told them that we would like to get married there in the middle of the Tropicana's Quarter. We asked who we needed to talk to if we wanted to have a very short ceremony with about 15-20 people. Since we chose to get married on a Monday (we wanted to have my parents anniversary date which happened to fall on a Monday) at 2pm, they said it was no problem at all. We didn't need permission as long as we weren't planning on setting up chairs. The cost was free and they were always excited and helpful when we called with questions.

VENUE COST: $0.00


GUESTS:
In order to keep the cost down (and the pressure!), we wanted to just have our immediate family there, but in the end we decided to invite a few of the friends that we spent the most time with. I had a rule... I couldn't invite anyone that I wouldn't feel completely comfortable tripping down the stairs in my wedding dress in front of. When you use that rule, you narrow it down quickly. In the end, we invited 27 people, and we had 22 for the ceremony (including us).

FAMILY:
We knew we couldn't pay for a wedding (without debt) that included our awesome, but humongous families, so I sent a letter with our photo and information about the groom to my extended family. Jon and I had been dating less than a year but had been friends for five years before that. Since my extended family lived so far away, most of them hadn't met him yet. I printed the letter on vellum paper that I already had so it was a little more exciting and spent 40.00 in postage to mail it to my extended family (including the cost of envelopes).  The letter that went out (with personal information redacted) is below:




MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENT



Jonand I are happy to announce that we are getting married in a very small, quick ceremonyat the end of January. We wanted to elope with just a few witnesses but weren’tsure how everyone would feel about it. Mom and Dad came up with a greatsolution of having an awesome picnic this summer to celebrate. No gifts please,just some great food (Opa’s chicken!), good friends, and a few laughs. Mom andDad will let everyone know the details in the spring.

Ithought I’d tell you a little bit about the man I’m about to marry.


Jonathan Groner is a XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXto XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXwith me. I’ve known him for 5 years and have always been astounded by his work ethic and XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX. Jon is the recipient of the XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX, the highest award in the XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX. He’s affectionately known around the office as “Jonathan Freaking Groner!” because there isn’t anything he can’t do. I never could have imagined his “softer, more romantic side” but I’m blessed everyday that God gave me the opportunity to see him as more than just “Jonathan Freaking Groner!”

Jon served in the XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX with the “XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXHe then came back to the States and joined the XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX.Once he served his 5 years in the Army, Jon came to the XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX. Jon is also a private pilot in his spare time, and is the president of the XXXXXXXXXXXX(Soon to be the NOVA Flying club). He’s also quite a talented entertainer. He can juggle torches of fire, he can even flip it under his leg! Using a bull whip (a real one, that can actually break skin and bones), he can snap a straw out of a man’s mouth (He did this in front of Mom one time and the picture of Mom’s expression is almost better then the trick.) He finished his first Triathlon last year and came in #13 in his division. He’s gotten into motorcycles, and last year he “built” his own“bobber” (I have no idea what this means but I bet the guys will). He’s also very modest and is insisting that I stop bragging about him, but I’m refusingJ

He’s also one of the sweetest, most romantic guys I know. Jon and I began dating after he came on a Trip to Atlantic City with my family, and while we were all at a Karaoke Bar… He serenaded me in front of EVERYONE (including Dad and Jenny) with “Your Eyes” from the Rent Broadway Show. When we had the insane blizzard this year, my house was snowed in by more than 2 feet of snow and my road, which is at the bottom of a hill, wasn’t plowed for over a week. I had to walk a half a mile in the snow to get to my XXXXXXXXXand even had to sleep in the office one night because I couldn’t take the walk anymore. Food was hard to get to, because most businesses were closed and home supplies were running low. Jon surprised me by walking 8 MILES in the blizzard from his house to my house to bring me food and help me shovel a footpath.

From co-workers, to acquaintances, to friends, to best friends, to dating and now onto husband and wife, Jon has always looked after me and put my feelings first. I can only hope that I can be as good to him as he’s been to me.


Our new address is XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX. We can’t wait to celebrate with everyone this summer!


ANNOUNCEMENT COSTS: $40.00


LODGING:
Since we were getting married on a Monday (with a small crowd, you can do that), We could take advantage of our free room offers. In fact, each of my immediate family members could take advantage of our free room offers giving us more rooms than we needed. This made it possible for us to help out some of the wedding guests with free rooms. We did have to pay the $8.95 for taxes and fees. When it's slow (like a Monday in January), you can ask for free room upgrades. We've had a two room suite before with a Jacuzzi tub next to the bed and a private entrance, and an ocean view room with floor to ceiling windows on three sides. Both of those rooms cost us just $8.95 in taxes and fees. We stayed for 2 nights and three days. We arrived the night before the wedding, stayed the day of the wedding, and left the next day. Very often on weekdays, you can call down for late check out and you won't need to check out until 2pm.
 Photo courtesy of Tropicana.net

LODGING COSTS: $8.95


SPECIAL CONSIDERATIONS:
Most likely, you can pay for your parking in comp dollars (free when you gamble a little bit of money), but if you don't gamble enough, then factor in another $10.00 for parking.

Also, if you've been to Atlantic City before, you'll get offers in the mail to tempt you to go. You can take advantage of those offers for extra fun.  I've gotten $15.00 gift cards to Macy's and free slot tournaments before. Keep in mind, these offers are meant to tempt you to spend a lot of money gambling. If you have an addictive personality, this is a tough place for you to be. Don't bring any credit cards or debit cards down to the casino floor. If you have a set amount of money to spend, have it in cash and divide it into days, then divide it into half days. Only carry your "half day" cash limit with you to the casino. That way, if you get inspired to gamble extra money you have to cool down during your walk to the room. Again, this isn't a problem for some people, but it's a good precaution. If you have someone in your party that has clearly demonstrated that they are immune to the bright lights and carnival sounds of the slot machines, then you can give all of your cards and cash to them. Remember, There are TONS of things to do at the Tropicana that don't involve gambling. They have an indoor and an outdoor pool, a health club, an Imax theater, a spa, an ocean you can swim in, a beach you can walk on, a boardwalk you can explore, shops and stores to check out, shows (often free with a comp card), and even magic shows in the magic shop! One of our favorite things to do is to meet in my family's room and play poker for change.

 I gave myself a $50.00 a day gambling budget ($100.00 total- though I often divert some of that money into the shops), and Jon a $100.00 a day gambling budget ($200.00 total). Jon gets more because he enjoys it more, but he also plays craps, which seems to have much better odds since he normally leaves with more money than he started and I almost always lose my money. For most of our trips, he makes up what I've lost so it works out well.

You should also set aside $20.00 in $1 bills for tips. This includes the bell hop, the maids, and the tips for the waitresses that bring you free (very strong!) drinks on the casino floor. You will also need gas money to make the trip up there. For us, this was about $65.00.

SPECIAL CONSIDERATION COSTS: $385.00


OFFICIANT:
We had just one thing that we wanted for our wedding. We wanted to be married by a family friend of ours that has served as our religious guide. In addition, this friend was the person who originally got us together and had been a source of inspiration in both of our lives. Plus, he's just really cool. It took a TON of research and several calls to the Atlantic City Registrar's office (609-347-5410), but we got it done. Atlantic City allows ministers of the Universal Life Church to officiate marriages. The Universal Life Church is an online church that certifies people for ministry. The only requirement is that the person seeking ministry have a belief in god. It's free, although you can pay (I believe $45.00) if you need credentials. New Jersey doesn't require credentials, so we didn't need to pay that. If you're interested, you can look into becoming ordained as a minister here.

Keep in mind that every state is different. Some states won't allow you to get married unless you are a practicing minister (i.e. you lead a congregation). Most states have a requirement that certain phrases are used in the marriage ceremony, so you need to research your state to ensure that you are meeting the regulations.

OFFICIANT COST: FREE!


MARRIAGE LICENSE:
We did have to take an additional trip to Atlantic City right before the wedding to obtain our marriage license. You also need to take your witness with you. Your witness can be anyone attending the ceremony. Your Marriage License must be obtained within 30 days of the wedding, but at least 72 hours before the wedding. Since we weren't arriving until the day before our wedding, we made a trip up about two weeks before the wedding. We used free room offers again, and just stayed over night. Mom packed a cooler with fried chicken, mixed greens, and pasta salad for dinner the night we arrived. We just meet up in their room and chow down. We have muffins for breakfast in the morning and eat lunch the next day at Adam Good Sports Bar. Adam Good Sports Bar is one of the best values in the Tropicana resort! In addition to cheap tasty food, you can use your comp card to get buy one, get one free meals. We normally spend about $15.00 for two people for lunch including the tip.
It takes about $65.00 worth of fuel to get to Atlantic City (from NOVA), so factor that into your costs for the marriage license trip. Plus, you'll have to pay another $8.95 for room and tax fees. You'll need $10.00 for tips and if you don't plan to gamble, you'll need $10.00 for parking. We spent $20.00 for my gambling money (in total) for this trip and $50.00 for Jon's. This was a whirlwind trip so we really didn't have much time for gambling. It's important to gamble something on every trip to continue to receive free room offers. But be cautious, gambling $600.00 on a room that costs $110.00 doesn't actually save you money.

The actual marriage license is obtained from the Atlantic City Registrars office, located at 1301 Bacharach Blvd. 1st Fl, Room 105, Atlantic City, NJ 08401. They can be reached at: 609-347-5410. The cost of the marriage license is $28.00.

 

MARRIAGE LICENSE AND MARRIAGE LICENSE TRIP COSTS: $206.95



PHOTOGRAPHY:
We chose not to hire a professional photographer and just have the guests take photos. We got tons of photos, and I'm happy with our decision. However, if this is really important to you, you can hire someone to come in and photograph the ceremony. I had received a quote of about $350.00 for 2 hours. Unfortunately, I wasn't planning on being a blogger at the time, so I didn't save who my quote was from. We have a really nice camera that we brought with us and gave to a guest for photos. We also had about 6 other people with their own personal cameras taking photos.

PHOTOGRAPHER COSTS: $0.00


WEDDING DRESS:
Despite bucking most of the other wedding traditions, the wedding dress was important to me. I went traditional and bought an actual wedding dress. I had an obsession with Greek dresses, and found one that I loved online at David's Bridal. When you're searching online, pick "view all dresses" and then sort by price: lowest to highest. As you scroll through, you'll find one that you fall in love with. When that happens, you'll be glad you're looking at the $300.00 dresses and not the $3,000.00 dresses. My Greek dress was on sale for $99.00. I ordered it and figured if I didn't like it, I can send it back. I put it on and fell in love with it. In fact, I fell in love with it so much that I wear it out for a night every time we go to the Tropicana now. They stopped selling mine, but you can find the dress from the photo above at David's Bridal for $119.00. You can wear any white sandals that you'd like, since no one will really see them.


WEDDING DRESS COSTS: $99.00



HAIR:
The Tropicana Casino has a Salon available. We didn't use it since my sister wasn't impressed with the assistance she received there. This is not the same as the Spa, which is the Blue Mercury. The Blue Mercury is amazing (although a bit expensive). We chose to go to The Trump Plaza Salon, which is about a mile away. We paid $65.00 for an up do. If I had to do it over again, I would actually do my own hair and make up, but it was nice to be pampered. If you make an appointment for your hair, don't mention the word "wedding". Actually, when you book anything, don't mention the word "wedding".

HAIR COSTS: $65.00


MAKE-UP:
We went to the Blue Mercury Spa to get our make-up done. I am quite positive that we paid $25.00, but their website now quotes $90.00 for a 50 minute make up application and instruction or $100.00 for a bride's make up application. If they won't do it for the $25.00, than I would do my own or have a talented guest help you out with your make up.

MAKE UP COSTS: $25.00


INVITATIONS:
We're lucky enough that one of our best friends has her own invitation business, so she was able to help us out on the wedding invitations. They looked great and were done casino style with rolling dice on the top.  If you're struggling to meet your budget though (and you don't have a best friend with her own invite business), go to Michael's Crafts and look in the clearance aisle. Every time I'm there, they have a box of 50 "print yourself" wedding invites for about $11.00. When we planned the "Wedding BBQ" for my family in the summer, we used these. They were so easy and looked surprisingly fantastic when they were done.

INVITATION COSTS: $11.00



WEDDING BANDS:
We had plans to go to Kay Jewelers (or even Walmart) and pick out two plain silver bands for about $50.00 each. We walked into Kay and I was dazzled by all the shiny things. Thank goodness Jon fell in love with a tungsten carbide ring that's so manly it doesn't have a match to it. His ring was around $185.00 (don't rely on the catalog price, if they can't beat that price significantly, look elsewhere). So, I picked the one with about a million diamonds. It matches my engagement ring perfectly. Let's face it... We failed miserably at being frugal on the rings, but on the bright side, I'm giddy in love with them:) We traded in our old diamond jewelry and paid about $800.00 to make up the difference for my wedding band. The catalog price was $1,499.00 but it was on sale for less.

WEDDING BAND COSTS: $985.00

(KEEP IN MIND, YOU CAN GO MUCH SIMPLER FOR ABOUT $100.00)


BRIDAL PARTY:
We kept it simple for the wedding, since our goal was stress free. My sister was my Maid of Honor. We're about the same size and height and collectively, we've been in a LOT of weddings, so I sent her my collection of bridesmaid dresses to combine with hers and she could pick her favorite (or go find a different one she liked). She chose a gorgeous strapless ball gown style in a deep purple that I had worn just a few months before as a bridesmaid. The best man was told to wear whatever he wanted. He chose a fancy suit that looked great.

GROOM'S TUX:
Jon already had a really nice black Calvin Klein suit, so we just paired it with a white button down with french cuffs and a dark purple tie. He looked great! If you have something in your closet already that works, then use that. If not, just figure out what you do have and shop sales to fill in what you need.

GROOM'S TUX COSTS: $0.00



REHEARSAL DINNER:
The night before the wedding, we had the Officiant, parents, and bridal party meet at Adam Good Sports Bar for dinner and to discuss the ceremony. Technically, there wasn't anything to rehearse but it was fun to get together. The ceremony was very simple. Everyone gathered in the balcony on the staircase in The Quarter. Jon and I met in the middle with the Officiant, he performed a quick 5-7 minute ceremony. We kissed, and we're married! The average cost for dinner for 2 at Adam Good Sports Bar is about $15.00 (including tip), and we had 8 people. Don't forget to print out your buy one entree, get the second free from the comp machines! The estimated cost of the Rehearsal Dinner was about $60.00, but you can tip an extra $20.00 (since you have a large crowd and you're using coupons).

REHEARSAL DINNER COSTS: $ 80.00



RECEPTION:

Photos courtesy of Carmines NYC

This was the other place that we splurged. My family has an obsessive love for Carmine's Restaurant. It's unbelievably good food. Their large group menu can be found here. We chose to eat at 2pm, which put us on the lunch menu. The cost was $35.00 per person versus $57.00 per person if we had eaten a few hours later. The Total Cost for dinner for 22 people was $770.00. We saved $484.00 by eating at 2pm for the same (delicious!) food. In addition to having amazing food, the staff at Carmine's were a blessing to work with and created a great atmosphere to celebrate.

RECEPTION COSTS: $770.00



BACHELOR/BACHELORETTE PARTIES:
We didn't have traditional bachelor and bachelorette parties, but we did have a blast the night before the wedding. All of the guests and the wedding party went to Planet Rose Karaoke bar in The Quarter (part of the Tropicana), everyone had fun and there was more than one drunken ballad. After that we went down to the casino and played craps and roulette until 3am. (In hindsight, I probably should have went to bed a tad earlier). It was one of the best nights of my life. Since I don't drink, and everyone kept buying Jon drinks, this actually didn't cost us anything except the gambling money that was already accounted for under "special considerations".

BACHELOR/BACHELORETTE PARTY COSTS: $0.00



FAVORS:
I hadn't planned on doing favors, but my mom in all her ingenuity came up with really sweet gift boxes for each of the guests that included cookie mix, cookie cutters with our names on them, bubbles, and a dollar chip from the casino that they could use or keep. I don't know how much they cost, but If I know my mom (and I do... very well), then the cookie cutters and bubbles came from oriental trading, the cookie mixes were $.88 from walmart, and casino chips were a dollar each. She made up a box for each couple.

 

COST OF FAVORS: (estimate only): $30.00



The wedding was amazing, completely stress free and one of the best days of my life. Even better? We weren't paying for it for years! The Wedding Barbecue that was thrown with my family that summer was equally amazing and completely stress free. I would recommend this as a way for anyone to get married.

 

TOTAL COST OF THE WEDDING OF OUR DREAMS: $2,705.90

We were equally blessed that my parents generously paid a significant portion of that, so we ended up spending about $1,500!

Monday, July 9, 2012

Establishing a Home Stockroom



I'm not a fan of buying food in bulk (except for emergency supplies), because I feel that it clutters our pantry and makes it hard to remember what we actually have and what we need. With that being said, I'm a huge fan of establishing a stockroom (or "Home Walmart", as I like to call it) of basic supplies that are needed daily.


I started our home stockroom almost two years ago and can't imagine life without it. There are several benefits to a stockroom:


1. Finances- You will save a considerable amount of money by buying the things you need at the lowest price. Rather than running out of shampoo and buying it at the grocery store where it costs 30% more, you are planning ahead and buying it for the lowest price. Because you are only making one Walmart trip every 4 months, you are saving a small fortune in impulse buys (unless you have much stronger willpower than me). By thinking ahead and making an organized list of what your basic essentials are, you can shop around and find the best unit price. When you list your unit prices, you can anticipate exactly what your home essentials cost will be, which will help you plan your budget.


2. Time- With an established home stockroom, you will never again have to run an unexpected errand. Ever. If I ran out of cat food, it would take me 40 minutes to get to a grocery store, buy the cat food, take it home and unload it. If you multiply that by every home essential you have, you could waste a lot of time on last minute errands. I have one errand to run a week (not counting my once a week grocery day), often I can skip errand day since I don't actually need to run any errands.



If you live in a multiple level home, establish a stockroom on each level. This encourages you to use the stockroom like you should and saves the frustration of running up and down stairs. If you live in a small apartment and don't have a designated closet, etc... Find a clean corner of a less used room, and start piling. This is one of the most important steps I took to gain control over my life. There's a million excuses you can give yourself for not doing this, such as "I don't have the money", "I don't have the room", or "I don't have an hour to go get all this stuff". This is the only time that I would encourage someone living paycheck to paycheck to use their credit card. If you don't establish this stock room, you'll spend almost 50% more to get the same things later.


Rules for a home stockroom:


1. Don't over do it, Establish a 4 month supply of what you need. Don't buy a 5 year supply, and don't buy anything that you haven't used routinely for over a year. An example of this would be if I said "Oooh! Glade plug ins! What a great idea!I'll buy 20 and I'll use them everyday!" The idea here isn't to start new routines, it's to keep a supply of essentials. Make a list, and don't deviate from the purchase list at all. If you have a partner, have them come with you as the "enforcer", they can ensure that you don't slip extras into your cart.

2. Give yourself at least 2 weeks of making and adding to your list before you go to buy your supplies. You'll be surprised to find how many things you use everyday that slip your mind. If you have a note feature on your phone, use that to keep your list since you'll likely have it with you all the time.

3. If your not sure how much you need for four months, (I certainly didn't when I started!), just guesstimate. You'll figure it out soon enough.

4. While keeping your stockroom functional is essential (shampoo should go with shampoo etc.), your goal is not to land the cover of Better Homes and Gardens. Don't agonize over labels and containers and wicker baskets and color coordinated back walls. If you make this too big of a project, it becomes overwhelming and it's hard to complete. Just stick the stuff in the closet (or in a corner) and let it be.

5. As soon as you have extra time, start comparing unit prices. Many items can ship directly to your door for free from walmart.com at the same prices that you find in the store. Also pay attention to sales, and if you see coupons (see my coupon exchange post in my archives) for items that you buy on this list, stockpile them.
Examples of what to stock:

1. Deodorant- Hers
2. Deodorant- His
3. Toilet Paper
4. Toothpaste
5. Toothbrush
6. Mouth Wash
7. Mascara (This may be just me- It makes my eyes burn after a month, so I constantly switch them out)
8. Body Wash
9. Shampoo
10. Conditioner
11. Razor Cartridges
12. Shaving Cream
13. Feminine Hygiene Products
14. Over the counter medicines that you take daily- Like Claritin or Allegra.
15. Hand Soap Refills
16. Paper Towels
17. Small trash bags
18. Kitchen Trash bags
19. Home Air Filters (I'm religious about these)
20. Laundry Detergent
21. Dishwasher detergent
22. Paper Towels
23. Batteries- AA, AAA, C, D (I store mine in Ziploc baggies)
24. Light Bulbs
25. Cat Food
26. In-Fridge Water Filter
27. Stamps
28. Ziploc Baggies
29. Aluminum Foil
30. Wax Paper

You get the idea. You can personalize it to meet your needs. Good Luck!

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Prince William, Northern Virginia: Dollar Night at Potomac Nationals


I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a huge sports fan. I'm still learning the rules to... well, actually every sport. I've been to a few Washington Nationals baseball games though and surprisingly loved it. I suspect it's more the atmosphere, the outdoors, and the hot dogs than the athletic displays.

Recently, a friend introduced me to the Potomac Nationals, a minor league baseball team associated with the Washington Nationals. We went on a dollar night sponsored by the Washington Post. Grandstand admission tickets are $1.00 and all hot dogs are $1.00. Parking is $5.00 and there really isn't another option for parking unless your up for a considerable walk. Every Monday night home game in the 2012 season is a dollar night.

I liked this much better than the Washington Nationals games for a few reasons. The first reason is the space, this wasn't overly crowded. I could stretch out my legs, and take up more more room than necessary. I was sitting right next to the P-Nat's dugout so I could see the players and get to know them (not that we talked, but there was a surprising amount of interaction between the players and the fans). I surprised myself when I found out that once I had picked out favorite players, I actually really did care about the game. It was much more affordable than the Washington Nationals, but I had a better experience (The W-Nat's ticket's cost $31.00, and the hot dogs cost $4.50). When I went to see the Washington Nationals, it took us an hour to get there (despite only being 15 miles away), fought traffic the whole way, had to pay for parking, and had to fight crowds in and out of the stadium. The P-Nat's took us 10 minutes to get to (it's near the intersection of Prince William Parkway and Old Bridge Road), had cheap parking, and almost no crowds. They have time after the game for the kids to meet the players, and tons of giveaways and events.

There are a few Dollar Nights left in the 2012 season, and I'm hoping they continue the sponsorship next year:

July 9th 2012
July 16th 2012
August 13th 2012
August 20th 2012

You can check out the Potomac Nationals Website for more information.

Total Cost for our trip to the Washington Nationals:
Tickets: $31.00 x 2 = $62.00
5 Hot Dogs: $22.50
3 Beers: $18.00
Bottled water that we brought in for me: $0.00
Parking: $35.00
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Total: $137.50

Total Cost for our trip to Potomac Nationals:
Tickets: $1.00 x 2: $2.00
5 Hot Dogs: $5.00
3 Beers at the house before the game: Free (with a designated driver only!)
Bottled water that we brought in: Free
Parking: $5.00
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Total: $12.00